Monday, June 27, 2011

Drive-way robbery

Unfortunately yes, we were robbed, but thankfully the story ends well...kinda.

Early Tuesday morning, around 1:40 a.m., Ben woke up for a feeding. He sleeps in a bassinet next to our bed and I pick him up and take him out to our den to feed him. As I was walking to the den, in my super sleepy state, I passed through our entry way and something caught my eye...in the furthest window of our formal living/dinning room (closest to the drive way) I thought I saw something that looked like a flash light. For whatever reason, I went to our front door instead of the window itself and I looked out. Immediately upon looking out the half stain glass, half clear glass window, I saw lightening, a storm was heading our way. So I quickly disregarded my original thought of a flash light and went about feeding Ben.

Around 2:00 a.m. I headed to Ben's room to change his diaper. As I placed him on his changing table I heard tires squealing and a loud exhaust speeding away. It sounded really close, so I strapped Ben in and ran, once again, to the front door. I saw nothing...again. So a shrugged and went back to baby Ben, who by the way, was happily waiting for me to return...such a sweet baby.

About 2:08 a.m. I am back on the couch in the den, about to go in for round 2 of the feeding and I look up to see very, very bright lights going slowly across the wall in front of me...Now I thought, "Okay, what in the world is going on out there!" There was just too much activity for our quite little street.
So I go to the window this time, and I see a cop car across the street. I watched him get out and of course I thought, "What are our neighbors up to this time?"...But no, the cop started walking across the street...TO OUR HOUSE! I started to panic, but just as crazy thoughts were about to start going crazy, I see his flash light beam go right to Michael's truck and I immediately realize...THERE ARE NO TIRES ON HIS TRUCK! Yes, that's right, the truck is still there, but it had no tires! (the very bright light, if you haven't already guessed, was the police spot light going across our house)

I kind of froze a little bit and in that time, the cop rang the door bell. I answered the door, asked him to wait, and yes, with Ben still in my arms, I ran to our bedroom. Michael had just woken from the door bell and was coming down the hallway towards me. I quickly just blurted, "I'm sorry...your tires were stolen, there is a cop at the door."

Michael made me and Ben stay inside while he talked with the police. (that was really hard for me, so I didn't :) I saw Michael open the garage, so I went to the garage to see what he was doing. As I walked out, I see him rolling a tire towards me...now I'm really confused! So, Michael tells me that the police told him that a passer by caught the robbers in the act, the robbers dropped what they were doing and fled the scene. The passer by called 911 and reported the vehicle (but the plates didn't match the car). So as Michael was outside talking with the police, he looked over and saw a pile of tires...3 of them actually! By the way, the passer by now totally makes sense with the sounds I heard...squealing tires...etc.

Michael files a police report, rolls the 3 tires in the garage, locks up and checks it 3 times and heads to bed. I finished feeding Ben, checked to make sure everything was locked again too and proceeded to lay in bed freaked out for the next 2.5 hours...until Ben woke up for his next feeding.

Morning finally came and Michael called into work so he could stay home and sort the whole thing out. He got the 3 tires back on and then put on the spare. I called and filed a claim with our insurance and then I called the dealership and located the factory wheels and tires to make sure he wouldn't have mixed matched wheels on the truck. You see this whole time, Michael and I were like, why did they steal 3 year old tires? What could they possibly be worth? Well we found out...total bill to replace 1 tire, 1 wheel, 4 lug nut locks, 4 new chevy logo thingy that goes over the lug nuts and then installation and some other things was just short of $1,400!!!??!!??! No wonder they stole it! Why in the world is it so expensive, especially for factory wheels and tires! Come on now!

By 3:00 pm Michael was back in business with his new tire. Later that afternoon a young guy, probably mid 20's stopped by and Michael went to talk with him. Turns out, he was the one who stopped the robbers! He said he lives a couple blocks down and was heading home around 2 am. He saw 2 guys loading a tire in their trunk and just figured that they were having car trouble. But as he passed our house he noticed that Michael's truck was on blocks! He said he instinctively slammed on his breaks and threw it in reverse! The two robbers jumped in their car and took off! The young neighbor followed them for a while, called 911 and turned in their info! WOW, what a brave kid! I don't know if I would do the same! But, I am thankful for what he did. I am glad that those thugs aren't making a big profit off of us, just a little one. :(

While all this was going on, we had recieved word that Michael's 98 year grandmother, Olga had fallen and broke her arm. At the same time, Amy was taking Scarlet to the emergency room for a really, really bad infection. My focus then shifted to the people we love...tires can be replaced, but the people we love can't. Scarlet is doing much better after several strong antibiotics, but Olga is still in the hospital and not doing that good. Please keep her in your prayers.






Note: on the bottom left of this photo, the missing pavers are whats holding up the truck. The nerve!

Happy Father's Day!

Happy Belated Father's Day to all the Dad's out there! We had a pretty good day ourselves! Life is good with 2 little boys and plenty of reason's to celebrate!


Daddy of the Year! (taking care of both boys while I make him a special brunch!)

Ben slept through most of it! ;) Doesn't that look uncomfortable? We move him all the time, but he keeps going back to that position.


Michael's gift: we made cement step stones with both boys foot prints in them.


Jonathan used some of the shells that he collected from our Galveston trip. He organized them for us. :)


Michael and Jonathan decorating Ben's step stone.


Jonathan's completed step stone!


The picture I took of the boys in a frame with a mat that I let Jonathan paint. I gave him all the colors that were in their shirts...he blended really well! :)

My new favorite picture of my 2 favorite boys!




The yummy brunch I made for Michael...Quiche Muffin's from our favorite breakfast place, Guenther House in San Antonio. Make it, you will love it! (yeah, I know, I burnt the bacon a little bit, but I like it that way!) http://www.guentherhouse.com/recipes/category/Brunch/quiche-muffins.htm


Monday, June 13, 2011

Is it Fall yet?

Yes, I know, it isn't even officially Summer yet...but it's been unseasonably hot here lately. Giving me all the more reason to just STAY HOME! I have pretty much decided that if we do not absolutely have to leave the house, then we ARE NOT going to!!! After some challenging trips out of the house lately and the ridiculous hot weather, my official stance for the summer is...if you want to see us, come on over, we ain't leaving! :)

Both boys appear to be growing before my eyes! I honestly can't believe it! Ben is getting more of a personality daily and I am falling more and more in love with him and his sweet disposition! Jonathan's vocabulary has just exploded over night! It is amazing! He will say something and Michael and I will both do a double take and beam with pride and chuckle a little! :)

Here are some pictures I snapped over the past month or so! Most of them are from my iPhone, so they aren't the best quality...but at least they share the moment! Some of my favorite moments as a mommy of 2! (Some of the pic's got out of order as I uploaded them and I couldn't resort them, sorry!)



My 3 boys - Ben is 10 days old

Jonathan reading to Ben - Ben is 12 days old

Me and Benny - Ben is 6 days old


Benny and Daddy - Ben is 34 days old

Jonathan and his boy bro, they love each other so much! Ben is 14 days old

Jonathan and Ben hanging out on the floor - Note - Ben doesn't take his eyes off big brother - Ben 38 days old

Jonathan was super excited to get his "awesome big brother" sticker from uncle James and aunt Debbie!

Our first shopping trip, we went to Target, of course! It went okay! :) - Ben is 39 days old

Sweetie Ben, getting bigger right before my eyes! Ben is 41 days old

Jonathan and his line of balls...he lines everything up! He cracks me up!


Ben looking at Jonathan of course! - Ben is 41 days old

Ben hanging with me while I try to get some stuff done...like Thank you notes!! :) - Ben 44 days old


(these got out of order) Daddy and Benny - Ben 7 days old

Sleeping Beauty - Ben 9 days old


Sleeping Beauty - Ben 9 days old


Hanging out with Dad watching the Mav's win!! - Ben 34 days old

Sweet Brothers! - Ben is 12 days old

Jonathan's summer time buzz cut, but before she finished we had to get a Mohawk pic!


A Monkey dressed up like a Froggy! :)


Thursday, June 2, 2011

The Family Update

It has now been 5 weeks since Ben was born! Can you believe it? I can't it seems to have flown by!! Let's see if i can catch you up on a few things...

Benjamin:
I know the first question on every one's mind is how much does he weigh? Well I don't know the answer, sorry. That would take energy I don't have right now. But I can tell you what he weighed 3 weeks ago when we had his 2 week check up!



Ben at 4 weeks.


Weighed: 9.12 (71st percentile) Gained almost 2 lbs since we left the hospital and almost 1 lb from his birth weight!
Height: 22" (85th percentile) Grown 1.5" since birth!


He is healthy and sweet baby! He is 100% breastfed & we are super happy about that! This past couple of weeks has been really challenging though. I have done my research & Ben has just hit his first major milestone/ growth spurt. The 3-4 week mark is notorious with babies for their first big growth spurt...they want to eat & sleep constantly & in-between they can sometimes be fussy. So for the past couple of weeks at night he has cried for 3-4 hours non stop. Again, a bit challenging...especially when it is in the middle of the night and not only keeping me up, but waking up Jonathan and Michael. Just adds another layer of stress. Thankfully both Michael and Jonathan are very sweet and understanding. Although, the other night Jonathan yelled from his bed, "Mom!!! Ben needs a DRANK!" - thank you son, I needed that! It made me giggle. But I thought to myself - No Mom needs a DRANK and Ben needs to go to sleep!!

Other than that, he is literally changes daily. He doesn't look a thing like he did at birth, or even like he did yesterday. We are seeing more Ramage/O'Brien in him these days, but time will tell. I looked at some of my baby pictures and there are a few where he looks almost just like me, but then the next day he changes again, so we will have to see. His hair is reddish/blondish/brownish, but I am sure that it will fall out and grow back another color. His eyes are super dark navy blue. He makes the funniest faces. And he definitely responds when he hears Jonathan come into the room. If he is awake, he will crank his head in the direction of Jonathan. It is really cool. Ben grunts and groans all the time. He also makes noises similar to a chipmunk or something. We are constantly laughing at all his noises. We don't remember Jonathan being this noisy!


Jonathan:


Jonathan LOVES being a big brother! In just these 5 weeks, I have a million heart warming stories to tell about how he has demonstrated his love for his brother, but I will share just a few...

One of the last projects at school was a Mother's Day gift. As you can see, when I opened it, I cried and cried. Jonathan's teachers told Michael that I should really like this gift because he really did say what they wrote. He is a sweet boy.


My Mother's Day gift.




Just yesterday the boys and I ran to get Jonathan some new shoes. At the register, the lady gave Jonathan a "Car's" sticker, he was so excited and jumped around the store with glee. Then all the sudden he stopped, went back to the lady and said - "Can I have another sticker for my brother?" - I have to say, I was shocked! I haven't had the opportunity to teach him to share with Ben, so it is awesome that he is doing it on his own! - So Jonathan went to Ben and put the sticker on his onsie and said - "Look Ben, we're twins! We're are twin brothers! I 'lobe' you so much!!" - Wow I almost started crying!


When Ben was first born and we were still in the hospital, Jonathan was very upset or scared by Ben's crying. After it had happened a few times I finally came up with telling Jonathan that he needed to sing to Ben every time he cried. What was crazy is that to begin with, every time Jonathan began singing Ben would stop crying! Jonathan was so proud of himself! It doesn't always work these days, but it gives him something to do when Ben is crying. He is made up a couple of songs, one of the is more of a chant..."That's ok, that's ok, that's ok..." and the other one is more fun and set to the beat of "Deep and Wide" an old song we would sing in Sunday School... "Benjamin...Benjamin...Benny, Ben, Ben, Benny...Benjamin..." - Here is a video of Jonathan singing to him...


When Jonathan wakes up every morning he asks the same questions..."Is Ben awake? Can I see him? I need to see his face! Is he still growing? Am I still growing?" Then he gives him dozens of kisses on his head and tells him that he missed him. It melts my heart!


Besides getting used to having a brother, Jonathan had his last day of school two weeks ago. We were said to have that school year end, but looking forward to summer! He got his hair buzz cut this past week! It's super cute!!!


Jonathan also had a check up, his 3 year check up!!! He is healthy and doing great, no causes for concern!


Weight: 33.8 lbs (67th percentile)
Height: 39.5" (89th percentile)

Michael:
He returned to work a few of weeks ago after having two weeks off. It was hard for both of us when he returned. I became so used to him being around and he liked sleeping in! He was so helpful then and now! I am a lucky girl! He has been great with picking up my slack on the house hold chores. But what has been super great is the extra time he has been spending with Jonathan. Since I can't always spend the time I want to or used to with Jonathan, Michael picks up where I can't right now. I am very thankful for that!

Julie:
I am doing well, healing fast & trying hard to get back to 'normal'. Although I put high expectations on myself to not let having a baby slow me down...I realized after a week or so that I was going to have to slow down.

Lack of sleep is no fun and this past week has been difficult, but I recall when Jonathan was 3-4 weeks was when my mom's cancer returned, my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer, Michael had to go on a business trip, and when he did I went and stayed with mom and dad. During that stay I became extremely sick with Mastise (a breast milk infection). I had 104.5 temp and basically felt the worst I have ever felt. This all directly lead to me throwing in the towel on breastfeeding! With that being said this past week has been a cake walk and I have no room to complain!

In all seriousness, things are going great and I couldn't be happier. I have 2 beautiful sons and a wonderful husband! Two weeks ago we had a really scary storm hit our area. The tornado sirens started going off, so Michael and I grabbed our 2 boys and went to our hallway. As the storm hit our house we could hear hail and extreme winds. On the radio they were reporting tornado's all over the place. I looked at my sweet family and was petrified, I never had more to lose and I started to panic. We were surprised and lucky we had no damage!! But our power did go out and stay out for 24 hours, which totally stunk! By the way, Ben slept soundly through the whole thing!! But through all of that I realized that I am one lucky girl to have such a wonderful family and I don't want anything bad to happen to them.

I haven't had much time to spend on the computer, so I am not sure when I will get a chance to post again. I will try to post more pictures soon.